Have you heard of the Positive Negative Syndrome (+- synd).
Well you gonna hear of this quite often here, because it happen to us always be it we ourselves or others around us. But before we go into it, people gets to be negative much more easier, rather than being positive. In fact it sometimes looks like or sounds like so ridiculous.
At Tesco, a few days back as I looking at a badminton racket, I said to another person who were also looking at one, "time to beat Lin Dan", as that was the day that we lost to China in the Thomas Cup 2010 semi-finals. This is what he said "Jangan harap lah bang" (don't hope for it).
Why does that kind of statement arises. Is it because we really think so, or we were so dissappointed, or we think we are as good as the rest.
As much as we would like to be in total positive thinking attitude, we just need to accept that due to certain reasons beyond our control, no matter how positive you are you can never do it. So what we should do is identify what we can really be the best at and ... DO OUR BEST.
Lets try to identify certain situation with regards to the statement below :-
I am sick - I am not well vs I am healthy - I don't feel so good.
Don't drive fast - Drive slow - Drive carefully.
Lets give it a thought for now.
Well you gonna hear of this quite often here, because it happen to us always be it we ourselves or others around us. But before we go into it, people gets to be negative much more easier, rather than being positive. In fact it sometimes looks like or sounds like so ridiculous.
At Tesco, a few days back as I looking at a badminton racket, I said to another person who were also looking at one, "time to beat Lin Dan", as that was the day that we lost to China in the Thomas Cup 2010 semi-finals. This is what he said "Jangan harap lah bang" (don't hope for it).
Why does that kind of statement arises. Is it because we really think so, or we were so dissappointed, or we think we are as good as the rest.
As much as we would like to be in total positive thinking attitude, we just need to accept that due to certain reasons beyond our control, no matter how positive you are you can never do it. So what we should do is identify what we can really be the best at and ... DO OUR BEST.
Lets try to identify certain situation with regards to the statement below :-
I am sick - I am not well vs I am healthy - I don't feel so good.
Don't drive fast - Drive slow - Drive carefully.
Lets give it a thought for now.
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